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Transitioning out of healthcare

When it is time to consider a different way forward

There may come a time when the work you have given so much of yourself to no longer feels sustainable. You may have spent years caring for others, supporting people through difficult times and being the person others rely on.

 

Yet now you may feel tired, overwhelmed or unsure how much longer you can continue.


Perhaps you have reached burnout, or the needs of others have begun to feel too much. You may feel affected by the trauma and suffering you have witnessed, or find that your own pain and hurt are beginning to arise with nowhere to take them.


You may be thinking about leaving health care, changing roles or finding another way to work. Even when you know something needs to change, this can be a difficult transition.

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When your work has been part of who you are

For many people, working in health care is more than a job. It can be connected to your values, your identity and the meaning you have found in caring for others.


The thought of stepping away can bring many feelings. You may feel grief for a role you once loved, fear about what comes next, or guilt about leaving others behind. You may question who you are without the role of carer, or wonder whether you are giving up when you simply have nothing left to give.


At the same time, part of you may know that continuing as you are is no longer possible. You may be longing for more space, rest and a life that feels more aligned with who you are now.

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Making space for what this transition means

Transitions are not only something we think through. They can also be felt in the body through anxiety, exhaustion, tension, sadness or a sense of being disconnected from ourselves.


You may find that your relationships are affected, that you are more irritable or withdrawn at home, or that you cannot switch off from the work you have been doing. These feelings deserve attention. They can be part of understanding what this time is asking of you.


Having spent more than 40 years working in health care as a nurse, I understand the realities of this work, the pressures within healthcare systems and the impact of caring for others over a long period. I also understand how difficult it can be to step back from a role that has held deep meaning.

Finding a new way forward

My counselling and psychotherapy practice offers a space to explore what this transition means for you. We can make room for the grief, uncertainty and questions that may arise, while also listening for what you need now.


Body-based Breathwork may support you to reconnect with yourself and notice what your body has been carrying through your work. It can offer a gentle way to make space for feelings that may have been held back, and to consider a way forward that feels more aligned with who you are now. I offer space for you to feel into the emotions of transition which may include grief. 


To learn more about this approach, visit my Breathwork page.

Begin a conversation

If you are considering therapy and wondering whether my approach may be right for you, I welcome you to get in touch.

 

A free initial conversation is a way for you to get to know me and find out if I am the right person for you.

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Counselling and Psychotherapy with Breathwork in Port Melbourne.​

Warehouse 4/339 Williamstown Road, Port Melbourne 

I acknowledge the Traditional Custodians of the land I live and work on.  I pay my respects to their Elders past, present and emerging. I honour their storytelling and deep listening to the land and to each other.


I nurture and accept the diversity of all people in my community.  Come as you are.

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